#DEAR_MEN Do you know:

Being able to dedicate yourself to one woman is what makes you a Real man. We live in a world where most men think that, maintaining flings with several women is what defines them as real men.

What defines a real man, is his ability to remain faithful, attentive, respectful, tolerant, forgiving, focused, supportive and consistent.

Take care of your responsibilities, own up to your failures, learn from those your past mistakes and chase after progress.

You got kids?

Take care of them.

Their mother?

Respect her. Even if you’re not with her in that way, (marriage) she still provided you with a priceless blessing in the form of a child.

Being a man is not about being:

“stone hearted,

selfish,

cold,

angry,

domineering,

evil,

disrespectful,

scary,

intimidating,

nasty,

childish and being a bully.

The very thing that defines a real man are often looked at as being too soft and weak but in fact, showing her affection, giving her your undivided attention, being able to listen and heed to corrections, being able to hold her, touch her in a way that provides reassurance that she is the only one, is one of the best ways to display that you are a real man.

A man doesn’t stress his woman, he relieves it.

A man doesn’t use his hands to bring agonizing pangs of pains to his woman, only pleasure.

A real man knows that ONE GOOD WOMAN is best for him.

Sadly, today’s definition of a real man has become blurred, but you can be one of the real men.

√ Duke Oluwamurewa Oluwanifemi

Public Speaker || Inspirational Writer || Certified Relationship Coach || Personal Development & Brand Expert• 08032581374

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